Seeking therapy is a valiant and courageous effort. Kudos to you for taking this massive step!
If you are reading this, it is likely because you are considering therapy here. And when I did, I equated the sizeable cost, time commitment, and study/practice effort asked of clients at Broadview with a higher likelihood of this therapy helping to make my life better. I can tell you that I spent about 10K over 9 months, worked hard, studied hard, and in that time, I graduated from their program!
However, the program didn't work for me. My life did not get all that much better. And I grew interested in finding out why Broadview wasn't the right fit.
I have since learned that genuine empathy that clinicians develop for their clients, and the trust this fosters between them, is perhaps the single biggest indicator of success in therapy. However, achieving genuine empathy for clients is a skill that can take years and years for a clinician to develop. Broadview is a clinic that accepts newly graduated psychologists, and in group therapy, the psychologists there are sometimes still studying.
What this means for us as clients (who are often highly attuned to slight shifts in emotions from others) is that we can sense when a clinician's empathy is a little rehearsed or slightly put on. We also understand, on an innate level, that what is being asked of us in group therapy are things that the clinicians themselves are unlikely to be living in their own lives (abstinence from alcohol, for example). And when we encounter enough of this dissonance, the therapeutic environment can begin to feel disingenuous, which can feel grating to clients who are sensitive to the world in general.
As a result, no matter how much money, time and practice we commit to Broadview as clients, these experiences over time can leave us inhibited from forming true connection with our clinicians, leading to a gap in real trust. And therefore, successful therapeutic outcomes are unlikely. This, I believe, is why there are so many up votes on the more negative comments for Broadview on Google Maps.
I wasn't able to fully describe the dissonance I experienced as a client at Broadview at the time, but I'm able to put my feelings into words now, after a great deal of reflection and study of my own.
If I were to provide you any advice, it would be to take the time to interview as many clinicians as you can before commiting to one, no matter the program. And don't stop interviewing until you've landed on someone you feel you can really open up to. That trust is vital to positive outcomes in therapy, more than anything else (including the type of program). If it is DBT you're after, above all else, remember that it is a grueling journey that requires immense support. Finding a clinician you feel connected to and that you feel you can build trust with, is all the more important to achieving positive outcomes.
Hopefully this helps you in finding the right clinician and therapy for you. And remember, you are not alone ❤