This is for Joyce,DR.P.K. Rai's Family & Friends
(any patientsthat actaully listened to him& honest in the first place.)
DR.Rai gave me respect. He expected you on time,because it is a sign of respect.In 23 the of being a patient DR.was late 10 mins. once.It was a story Joyce told me. He auctually took time to let her know to tell his Patients. Joyce couldn't believe that someone even complained that day & niether can I. He was understanding and clever.He wasconcerned when i was under wieght & I assume pertrude when i was over wieght. That really wasn't my problem. I had quite a few bad years and so has he. I remember I was in IODE hospital and was not happy & a bit pissy about it . Truely maybe even a brat. I deided to be the First one to speak for the first and catch him off gaurd. I said Good morning DR.Rai & how is your day .I was being very sarcastic. Well didn't he just look at me & with emotiom SAID,"Not so good,My Father just Died & i have to go to India. I don't know when i'll be back and i not looking forward to this. Dr Doliwal will look after you and don't make his life difficult. I made my condolenses and her was gone. I was in that hosipital all summer i think it was summer Ithought he had left me there for good,and when he came back i pomised to stay medicated and he if you I'll hit you a cane. Iseen DR. Rai every 6 weeks like clock work .Don't think I missed or reschedual but 15 appointments in23 years. Joyce would have to ckeck. It doesn't matter I always called.That wasall he wanted, not to waste his he plan a call home talk to his grandchildren for a minute. He taught how to recgonize I wasn't feeling right .When I asked for help it was there & need not feel ashamed. No one can do all of life by themselves.He helpped with my clildren,taught me patiense. Something you need having children.He taught "its ok ,your life doesn't have to be just thereopy sesions. GO have some fun go back to school.I am.He never once let me down, thats commitment,thats duty, thats purpose. I have one regret,that is we never could have a golf game or get to watch oneon tv,my guess we were both fans and thought we could play too. My sincere overwhelming saddness is for ,family, friends &Joyce, I truely know how missing someone that loved &was loved back feels,may your heartsstay full,your hands stay busy,& may your mind hold all the wonderful memories for evermore. jmc