I recently had some work-related stress, anxiety and possibly even depression. Issues like these were something I had never once had to deal with before (I am so lucky!) and therefore it was my first time seeking counselling. I was quite nervous, I am not one to talk about myself or my feelings in front of others, I'm more of a listener. My first visit was with Joy Lang; she was everything I would have wanted in a counselor, friendly, approachable, compassionate, personable and understanding. I felt somewhat better after that visit. Unfortunately, she had a rather long vacation come up soon after my first appointment, and when I was in need of another one I had to see a different counselor. This time I had my session with Cookie. I was extremely disappointed in this visit, even somewhat embarrassed. She made me feel idiotic for coming in because, to the human eye, I looked fine, wasn't crying, might have cracked a joke here and there but inside I felt terrible. It was quite obvious by her actions that she thought I had no reason to be there. I'm not sure if this is because she felt a little weird, starting where another counselor finished off, but it came across as a little rude to me. She even asked "Are you nervous? You seem like it." which made me feel uncomfortable and aware of every single move I was making. After she asked I pretty much wanted to just bolt out of there. Maybe it sounds dramatic, but she honestly turned me off from counselling. I was scared of feeling stupid and unimportant from the beginning and that is exactly how she made me feel.
In summary, I wish I could make the stars higher for the establishment as the majority of my experience was satisfactory. Unfortunately, I just can't get over my final experience and I'm not sure seeking counselling again in the future will be something I voluntarily agree to due to the experience.